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Spiritual Growth: Add Love

Peter concludes this list of Christian graces with the highest and most comprehensive quality: “add…to brotherly kindness love” (2 Pet. 1:7). This is the pinnacle of spiritual growth.

The word used here is agape—a love that seeks the highest good of others. It goes beyond affection for fellow Christians and extends to all people, including enemies (Matt. 5:44). It is the fullest expression of Christ-like character.

Scripture places special emphasis on this kind of love. It is greater than faith and hope (1 Cor. 13:13). It is the first component of the fruit of the Spirit (Gal. 5:22). It is the bond that holds all other virtues together (Col. 3:14).

Agape love is unique. It is not based on emotion or convenience. It is a deliberate choice—a commitment of the will. It is unconditional, not depending on whether others deserve it. It is unselfish, not seeking something in return. It is sacrificial, placing the needs of others above our own. And it is enduring—it “never fails” (1 Cor. 13:8).

This kind of love is essential. Jesus taught that loving others—even enemies—reflects the nature of our heavenly Father (Matt. 5:45). It defines the Christian life. We are to “walk in love” (Eph. 5:2), serve one another through love (Gal. 5:13), and do all things with love (1 Cor. 16:14).

So how do we develop this love? First, by looking to God. He demonstrated His love by giving His Son for sinners (Rom. 5:8). His love is the model and the motivation for ours.

Second, by following the example of Jesus. He showed the greatest love by laying down His life (John 15:13). His life becomes the standard for how we treat others.

Third, by practicing the qualities described in 1 Corinthians 13. Love is patient, kind, humble, forgiving and enduring. These are not abstract ideas—they are daily choices we must make in our interactions with others.

Finally, love must be demonstrated. Our love for God is shown by keeping His commandments (John 14:15). Our love for others is shown through action—helping those in need and living “in deed and in truth” (1 John 3:16-18).

This is where spiritual growth leads. Faith begins the process. Each quality builds upon the last. But love brings it all together. If we truly grow as God intends, our lives will be marked by this kind of love—a love that reflects the heart of God and reaches the lives of others.

The growth described in 2 Peter 1:5-7 is essential and it never reaches an end. What needs your attention today?